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I'm a bisexual crossdresser in a polyamorous marriage with a a wonderful transgender woman. She is pre-op but has lived full-time with hormones for about 10 years now. It's important to her gender identity that she has a partner who is a strong masculine figure. It's out of respect for her that I don't involve her with my crossdressing... so I've been dressing alone for quite some time.

A girl gets lonely though, and that's what brings me here. I'm looking for company, friendship, and the opportunity to explore with other crossdressers in a safe and supportive environment. I imagine it would be quite nice to have a girlfriend or two to giggle with as we apply makeup or to cuddle through a movie.

While I'm completely content to meet other crossdressers for platonic friendships, I'm also hoping to explore the sexual side of my dressing. I've never had the opportunity, and it's something I finally need to allow myself. NSA ads and anonymous hook ups give me the creeps and I'm hoping to find good people with a similar mindset. I tried the whole "scene" thing with the BDSM community and just wasn't for me. I'm an introvert and prefer a more private and personal approach, away from the cliques and the clubs, with people I know and can trust.

With that being said, I am sexually adventurous and come equipped with my kinks and fetishes. I would absolutely LOVE to find another crossdresser who is into femdom as much as I am... especially foot worship. One of the wonderful opportunities with crossdressing is that you can experience it from both sides. While I prefer to be submissive with women, I'm happy to switch for other crossdressers. I might need a little practice, but the more I think about it there's something very appealing about channeling my inner bitch. Aside from BDSM, I'm generally a big perv and am open to just about anything.

I'm not particularly closeted about my crossdressing, but I don't have a burning desire to head out to restaurants and nightclubs. I've gone out once or twice in the past and I enjoyed it... but I dress for other reasons. To be honest, I'm not doing it as much as I used to, and I really miss it. Doing it alone has lost some appeal, and I think the company of other crossdressers will inspire me to rekindle my passion for it. If you think you can help, I'd love to hear from you.

Cancer

Average

5' 10 (1.78 m)

Blue

Caucasian

Married

Inked All Over

Brown

Dog

Full-time

Computers / Electronic

Alone

All Is Calm

Yes - Often

No

Quiet One

Reserved, Shy, Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Dark

Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Games, Family, Dining, Photography, Cooking, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up, Playing Video Games, Going To A Concert

Something low-pressure where we can get to know one another, test for chemistry and verify that neither of us are axe-murderer material.

You're going to have to wait for the second or third date for that ;)

Friendly, Cool, Obscure, A Flirt

Atheist

Never

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Obscure, Raunchy

Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Documentary, Animation, Horror, Thriller, Adult

Rock, Metal, Electronic, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Industrial, Ambient, Folk, Punk

Ancient, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Fiction, History, Horror, Humor, Philosophy, Satire, Science, Science Fiction

Intelligence, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate