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kind, considerate, and kinky
Age 41 From Newmarket, Ontario - Online - Over 2 weeks ago
Crossdresser Seeking A Man

Basic Information

I Can Speak  
English
I Would Describe Myself As  
Well, I'm a boilogical male, bisexual too. I'm a pangendered person and I show it via cross dressing. I got into this at a very young age, started with highheels and boots and eventually found its way in the BDSM and fetish scene.

Myself, I'm a kinky lifestyler, BDSM lifestyler. I love it. It keeps me sane when I get fed up with how the world works. I love to be submissive, and I have experience in many things, but I still want to learn! I love BDSM and kink for the adult and philisophical reasons so I'm not just another dirty mind, but one that can articulate well WHY I am, haha. It's my biggest passion and I can shoot the breeze on it every day. In that I am extremely loyal to my [hopeful I am] partner or dominant or what have you. I am there for them first.

Outside BDSM and fetish I love sceince. Love technology but only for what it can do, I'm actually more old fashioned hehe. I love carl sagan's COSMOS series and am avidly trying to find works by him, and learn more about the cosmos we dwell in.

I like to cook, don't mind cleaning [if done in a fun way!]. I'm not a big trip person. I don't travel much as I cannot afford to, and have only a few places I'd like to visit: Germany, Cape cod and Ireland.

What do I look for in guys? Loyal, creative, kind and considerate. Also a great sense of humour and a sick n twisted kinky mind :D

I like dominant men intimately, but also the sweet, caring kinds too. I am sensual and sensative, so tohave both sides nurtured, and so that I can do the same with that person and really earn their respect is what I want.

I am bi, so I don't shun women. Women are lovely, you have the cutest boots n shoes :D

I am on here looking for freinds, possible dates, and/or to find a dominant teacher or teachers [male or female, trans or CD] to help develop my submissive side and so that I can also learn to treat a dominant with better respects, and with greater admiration. It would bring great happiness to me if I hear the words "good boy" or "good girl".

Anyways, glad you spent your time reading this. I hope I haven't bored you!

Hope to hear from you!

OH! BTW! Freinds of any age are welcome. :)
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Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
Athletic
My Height Is  
5' 8 (1.73 m)
My Eyes Are  
Blue
My Ethnicity Is  
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is  
Single
I Have Kids  
No
I Want Kids  
No
My Best Feature Is  
Eyes
Body Art  
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is  
Brown
I Have One Or More Of These  
Cat, Dog

Status

My Education Level Is  
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is  
Full-time
My Speciality Is  
Other
My Job Title Is  
I Work in retail, back end ops.
I Live  
Alone, With Parent(s)
At Home  
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker  
No
I Drink  
Yes - Socially

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A  
Outcast
My Social Behavior Is  
Shy, Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Dark, Strange
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Exercising, Learning, Music, Internet, Family, Photography, Religion / Spirituality, Cooking, Cars
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
Meet up for coffee! I'll introduce myself, shake your hand and lets talk! Get to know each other better and see if we connect good for a 2nd date.
I've Always Wanted To Try  
Heavy and hard BDSM fetish sessions. I've wanted to do some things that this site would kick me out for [don't worry nobody gets harmed, geez]. Hurt is ok tho!

Always wanted to serve a BDSM themes dinner party. ASK me about it!

I want to make a music CD, and write a book! Trying now!
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Friendly, Cool, Raunchy, Obscure, Goofy

Views

My Religion Is  
Other
I Attend Services  
Once A Year
My Political Views Are  
Very Liberal
My Goal In Life Is  
Find a man, find my training, find a job or jobs I can live with and live my life the way me and my lover want. :) Or as close to that as possible.

When all else fails, PIMP PIMP PIMP! LOL Just kidding.
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Slapstick, Raunchy, Sadistic

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch  
News, Cartoons, Documentaries
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Science Fiction, Comedy, Documentary, Animation, Adult
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Rock, Metal, Electronic, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Industrial, Latin, New age, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Folk
When I Read, I Always Read  
News, Comic, Fantasy, History, Humor, Instructional, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Reference, Poetry, Religious, Satire, Science, Science Fiction, Technical
My Idea Of Fun Is  
Alot of things are fun. I love to hit the gym, throw dinner parties with a BDSM twist, or just have people over. I love to do BDSM sessions [WHOO HOO!]. I like sports, and art. Swimming and snuggling ^_^

Love to sleep in and just, talk in bed. I love debate and playing music. I can sing too when I try.

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Power, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For?  
Somebody who is firm, fair and knows what they like. Also somebody who is open, creative and caring. Sensual, and loving.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed
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