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I\'m an older mature guy, a former professional basketball coach (6-3 and 195 pounds) who\'s been around the world to 45 countries coaching, working, and living...and I\'m experienced both sexually and in other ways (calmly handling problems and getting along well with others). I\'ve always been sexually aroused by crossdressers, even in my younger years and all during a 30-year marriage to the same woman (who\'s deceased now). I am a highly sexual guy who requires lots of sexual relations, and I\'m seeking a like-minded younger (20 to 40) feminine and affectionate crossdresser for sex and possibly a long-term relationship if we click and are compatible sexually. I am not interested in size of one\'s cock nor how many muscles they have...but rather how nice a person they are and how feminine/or gentle they are. I prefer petite and slender and smooth crossdressers...but one\'s good character, intelligence, and gentle nature are the most essential factors.

Pisces

Athletic

6' 3 (1.91 m)

Blue

Caucasian

Single

Yes - Not At Home

No

Hands

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Bald

No pets

Yes

University Degree

Retired

Teacher / Education

Former Basketball Coach

Less Than $14,999USD

Alone

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

No

Average Joe

Observant, Friendly, Flirtatious, Outgoing

Sports, Reading, Learning, Movies, Internet, Family, Dining, Cooking, Gardening

Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Relaxing, Reading A Book

Basically whatever my date prefers and is passionate about, but perhaps if she can't decide then a first date exploring some part of town or some exhibit or store or neighborhood that neither of us has ever seen before--even though it's right in our hometown--followed by a nice meal at a restarant known for its fine ethnic dining...followed by either a quiet walk along a popular riverspot or lakefront (depending where we live), or a movie or play or ball game...and topped off either by a warm kiss at her doorstep or a warm night of sexual passion, depending upon the status of our relationship's progress.

As long as I can remember--and this is true, not only because I'm on this site--I've always wanted to try a long-term, live-in husband/wife type of arrangement with a petite and slender and younger crossdresser...with all that implies: shared problems and hopes and desires--and sexual relations...and while I don't consider myself homosexual, there is a certain calmness and sense of propriety about this type of pairing that both warms my heart and arouses my loins.

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, Goofy, A Flirt

Christian

Never

Liberal

My life's goal at this stage of my journey is to continue to be a nice human being, and to try and find a long-term sexual and live-in relationship with a crossdresser that will not only benefit us both, but will make both of us happy, sexually aroused every day, and happy to be in each other's company (and life).

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy

News, I Don't Like Tv

Drama

Pop, Blues, Latin, Ambient, Reggae

Biography, Classic, Fiction, History, Nature, Political, Sports, I'm An Author

Two types of fun are available to most of us, fun by ourselves (such as reading or watching TV or hiking, etc.) or fun with our significant other--I prefer having a good time with my significant other. And that kind of fun would be as follows, with occasional variations: First a brisk walk outside (hand-in-hand) accompanied by pleasant, maybe sexual (definitely loving) conversation...next a warming glass of wine or other pleasant beverage again accompanied by warm, caring conversation...followed by the preparation by both of us working together of an agreeable meal, perhaps by candlelight...and then followed by a night of watching a ball game on TV or a DVD movie or maybe just each of us curled up in a chair reading our favorite book, or maybe just special talk and cuddling on the sofa or on the carpet while sipping a cup of wine or some other favorite beverage...followed by passionate and sensual and inventive sexual relations, and topped off with a nightcap in front of a crackling fi

Intelligence, Good Looks, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness

The qualities and personality traits I look for in a partner and lover and possible new live-in spouse are intelligence, a sense of humor, passion (for life as well as sexually), and a good and honest and sincere character--in other words, a good person...But having said all that, I need a lover and partner who is sexually active and sexually bold and very feminine in her lifestyle, dress, grooming--and, most important to me, her approach toward our relationship where she is affectionate in a feininne way, delicate not mannish, and very usually submissive during our daily sexual relations--in other words, I'm seeking a petite and slender and feminine-acting and highly sexual and passionate crossdresser to be my new spouse and life's parter, for better or worse...

Intimate, Committed