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I am a closeted crossdresser seeking to meet (and play with!) kindred spirits on the Chicago Northside.

So a little about me... Bi-sexual (70/30) and NOT gender-dysphoric, I discovered my love for all things silk, satin, and lace at a young age (by virtue of having shared a hamper with two sisters lol). The look and feel of their girly things both excited and calmed me.

Later, muddling through puberty, I would also discover that dressing turned me on... like, a lot. I can still picture watching the dark spot form on the front of the white satin panties I was wearing the very first time I actually cam.

In the years that followed, I would have rich and meaningful romantic relationships with both men and women, but never did I dare show ANYONE my secret underwear collection. Deeply troubled by the incongruity of my peccadilloes, I would at times try to resist the urge for some weeks or months, contenting myself by buying lingerie sized for my partner instead -- also extremely fun for me, btw :)

Then in college I met and fell in love with an amazing woman -- clever, kind, supportive, and sexy -- and ultimately told her everything. To my mild surprise (and great relief!), she did not immediately run screaming from the dorm. On the contrary, she was...

Out of time. Rest to follow soon!

Cheers :)

Scorpio

Athletic

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Single

No

Yes

Lips

Dark Brown

No

University Degree

Self-employed

Finance / Trading

Strategic Consultant

With Roomate(s)

Friends Come Over Often

Yes - Often

Yes - Socially

Cool Dude

Comedic, Flirtatious, Friendly, Observant, Outgoing, Party Starter, Fire Starter

Camping, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Dancing, Dining, Family, Games, Gardening, Learning, Movies, Music, Reading, Theater, Travel, Tv, Volunteering

Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Casino, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Partying, Playing Dress-up, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Trying New Things

Dinner, drinks, dressing?

Absolutely everything.

Friendly, Cool

Jewish

On Holidays

Liberal

To be happy, healthy, successful, significant, and loved.

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Sadistic, Slapstick, Raunchy

News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Documentary, Animation, Thriller

Ambient, Classical, Dance, Electronic, Jazz, Pop, Rock

Biography, Fiction, History, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Satire, Science, Science Fiction

Several standard deviations greater than the mean

Boldness, Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Oddities, Power, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

Coming to grips with who I am (and what I like/want) has been... a challenge. There were nights as an adolescent when I would cry myself to sleep, pray not to be this way, or curse God for making me so. When I picture that confused and frightened little boy all these years later, I smile bitter-sweet, and am overwhelmed by the desire to somehow embrace this sad specter -- to squeeze him tight, look directly into his eyes, and with the calm and confidence that comes only from knowing, tell him: "Everything is going to be okay. It gets so much better -- better than you ever thought possible -- just hang in there, just hang in there and you'll see..."

AND SO, what I'm really ultimately looking for here is simply the chance to get to know SOMEONE LIKE ME; to understand and learn from their unique experience of our common road; and the kinship of species.

And of course, I also want to play!!! Lets go shopping, have a fashion show, do each others makeup, whisper about our fantasies, and whatever else you have in mind!

If a physical attraction develops between us, I'm down to get down ;)

Perhaps we will even become lovers, and indulge in all manner of carnal delight... Who knows?

Friend, Date, Intimate