Joni

English, French

I'm more feminine in my thoughts, feelings, and attractions than a typical man. Love being more open and sharing with others, especially women, who will like me as a man and as another woman. Love feeling pretty, acting like a lady, its more social. Dress 1-2/month for going out to be with friends. Could be more if with a closer girlfriend. At home, I wear nighties in bed, and most of my 'male clothes' pants, shirts, socks, underwear, shoes are actually 'womens'. Recently got ears pierced, much better than pinching clipons. Trying to find ways to keep body hair to a minimum. Detest shaving, so often have Don Johnson look until I dress.

PhD Geology, retired but 50% time taking care of adult multiply disabled daughter. Share her one week at a time with her mom. 6 months divorced but 6 years separated.

Super interested in everything - scientific, artistic, musical, etc. Runner when young, trying to restart that. Learning dancing at studio. Like to couples dance with women but current focus is bellydance. Musician - guitar, mandolin, hammer dulcimer, etc. Love almost all kinds of music but not rap/hiphop. Live music and performances are great. Like to hike but rather glamp than camp. Like athletic activities but don't care about watching sports. Except track meets at Olympic level. Don't want a sports fanatic. I was one - but I'm done with that. Love to read! Would love snuggling on couch, watching movies. Used to love cooking when young but on my own have no desire. More fun with and for 2 people. Just like other things are more fun with 2.

Love to visit other places and countries. But actual traveling there is tiring unless its a leisurely road trip. Lived in many countries when young. Traveled for work to many many places.
Have list of remote and not so remote islands would love to see.

Very casual. But can enjoy getting very fancy for occasions. Not high energy. But if had a companion would do many more things.

Like intellectual conversations. Love to laugh and joke. Am quiet crazy type. Extroverted introvert. Conservative Christian but detest political discussions and some faith differences are fine if we don't argue over them. More live and let live than used to be.

Seek smart, educated woman with sense of humor and interests like mine. who would more than tolerate my dressing. At very least enjoy having a sometimes girlfriend to hang out with as well as a boyfriend, but if more interested than that I would be very happy.

My face is an open book. I cant hide emotions. But I cant take anyone who reads my face jumps to conclusions and takes everything personally.

I have and can treat a woman well, but not interested in someone who wants me to do, plan,
take initiative all the time. Its stressful trying yo always be the one a woman expects to do all that. I like women who have ideas of things they want to do and I'm happy to go along if they plan them.

Want more than a casual friend. A companion. A romantic companion. Cant see marriage again unless we have several years of getting along very well.

I'm very good in bed. Give my attention to her to feel great, slowly, and long. Yes, have fantasy of being dominated, even while dressed, but not completely expected from a woman. Dressing is not usually sexually arousing by itself but if a woman wanted to take advantage of me, then I would probably be happy to have her do so. Yes, have had fantasy of being a bottom, but not by a man.

Dont like: mint. The smell and taste make me sick. A few other similar smells are also yucky to me. can tolerate friends smoking but not in my house. best if you don't smoke or vape.

Unless very close by, can only meet every other week or weekend (if you work). My free weeks I can spend several days with you or a full week.

I am often too wordy so will stop here.

Cancer

Average

6' 0 (1.83 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Divorced

Yes - Sometimes At Home

No

Eyes

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

No pets

No

University Degree

Retired

Research / Science / Engineering

Alone

All Is Calm

No

Yes - Socially

Quiet One

Reserved, Shy, Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Outgoing, Strange

Religion / Spirituality, Dining, Photography, Exercising, Reading, Arts & Crafts, Learning, Music, Movies, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Dancing, Theater, Travel, Cooking

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Clubbing / Bars, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

casual, time to talk. not fancy. Over food and drink (coffee or alcohol), could include outdoor place to walk and talk like gardens, etc.

Hot Air Balloon.

Friendly

Christian

Once A Week

Conservative

To enjoy life God has given me, make known the beauty of God's creation (through science and art), love others as Jesus loves me.

Clever, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure

Documentaries, Movies

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Family, Thriller

Country, Rock, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Latin, New age, Soul, Reggae, Folk

Ancient, Biography, Classic, Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Home & Garden, Humor, Mystery, Nature, Philosophy, Religious, Science, Science Fiction, Romance

Talking about books, movies and shows we've seen. Dressing up. Shopping. Outdoors - hiking, rock/fossil collecting, running. Dining out - new foods. Seeing new places. Exploring. Puzzles. Live shows/concerts. Festivals. Playing music. Arts and crafts. Dancing -still learning. Watching stars.

Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

Friend, Date, Intimate